I talk to wonderful women every day, and for years now I've been just amazed at how many FANTASTIC women are single and don't want to be. These women often have been single for years - and don't seem to have ANY insight into what to do about it...
I've been an astrologer and relationship coach for two decades, and many of my clients come back and back and back to see me. And often, year after year - their lives are almost the same as the year before. One year seems to smoothly (make that DULLY) roll into the next, and not much changes.
They STILL almost NEVER date, they still aren't getting much attention from men at all (or only the WRONG attention), and they still are HOPING that I'll see HIM in their astrology chart - THIS TIME. Sigh... it's one of the hardest parts of doing what I do - KNOWING that my clients are looking to me for GOOD NEWS. But I can't always give it...
And NOT because it's not in the chart. More because the thing going on with these women - women who are PERPETUALLY single, or ALWAYS falling for one BAD guy after another, can't be magically "fixed" by the stars. What she needs to do can be "illuminated" by the stars - her chart can and always DOES reveal what's up with her endlessly single status - what's BENEATH it and causing it...
But her life is not going to CHANGE because of what the stars are doing. So, what's the answer, you ask? She has to be WILLING to take the insights her chart reveals as to what's STOPPING her from making more effort, and then DO THE WORK in the REAL WORLD to create more love in her life. And in my experience, most women aren't WILLING to do that.
They aren't WILLING to take matters into their own hands - in the RIGHT way. They think it has to come from OUTSIDE themselves. Now, don't get me wrong. They often THINK they're making the effort. They tell me, "Oh, I've internet dated. It didn't work for me!" But then admit they only did it for two months and only met THREE men. (Think what your career would be like if you only sent your resume out once to three companies and then decided you were "cursed" to be jobless and broke.)
Or, they say, "Oh, I go out ALL THE TIME and I NEVER meet anyone I like." But upon reflection it's clear that they only go out with their already married friends and NEVER talk to anyone they don't know. Or, they SWEAR they're "looking for love" and meeting men constantly, but then reveal that they NEVER go to the kinds of places the kind of man they want would be - and only meet the kinds of men they DON'T want, because those are the environments they're always putting themselves in.
So, they're running on a hamster wheel of romantic exhaustion, and not getting anywhere. Year... after year... after year... So they come to see me, because they're WAITING for some COSMIC FORCE to BLESS them with some transformative VIBES and make everything effortlessly just the way they want it to be with the perfect man for them. (You know - the prince rides up to their front door and rings the bell with flowers in one hand and an engagement ring in the other...)
Now, here's what's tough... Once in a while they DO effortlessly run into a guy they like who DOES pursue them. But because it's been SO LONG since anyone has, and because they're SO tired of waiting for something to happen, and because they're so HOPEFUL that FINALLY this could be HIM, they don't make good choices, or get to know him slowly, or really make sure that they can trust him before they do.
And then - inevitably they get SQUISHED and then go back to making little or no effort (or the wrong KIND of effort), and hoping that the STARS have it all handled. I've gotten SOOO heartbroken watching otherwise healthy, successful, LOVING women go through this again and again, that I've created a CD/DVD program to hopefully STOP THE MADNESS.
It's called, "Single Syndrome - The Five Astrological Archetypes Keeping You Single and How To Overcome Them."
If you think this could be you - if you're a perpetually single woman, or if you only seem to fall for BOZO after BOZO and want to have the love of your life come and stay and get off this vicious merry-go-round of misery, then "Single Syndrome" is for you.
You can read all about it and get all of this insight FOR YOUR specific needs by going here.
I called it "Single Syndrome," NOT because there's anything WRONG with you, or WRONG with being single, but because there's a PRESCRIPTION that's RIGHT for your personal situation, but you don't know the HEALING REMEDY for your needs, and so aren't using it. "Single Syndrome" tells you JUST what to do.
Here's how it works... Your astrology chart (and that of all the women I work with) reveals your INBORN NATURE - the personality type you were BORN WITH. I find that perpetually single women have FIVE predictable patterns in their astrology charts that create five basic PERSONALITY TYPES that cause them to BE and STAY single. I call them "the five astrological archetypes of single women."
Now, here's the fun part... When you KNOW your astrological archetype, and what it means about WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU NEED, and HOW YOU ARE in your private life, you can have INSTANT awareness as to JUST what you need to do to CHANGE your single status forever.
Each archetype has SPECIFIC solutions that completely HONOR your personality while still DRAMATICALLY improving your odds of finding and keeping the right, lasting relationship for you. But if you continue to be UNAWARE and BLOCKED by your archetype, then it will continue to keep you doing the same old things, interacting (or NOT interacting) with men in the same old ways, and attracting the same kinds of WRONG men to you over and over and over. Year... after year... after year... And perhaps forever.
Now, I'm not trying to be dramatic, and I'm NOT trying to scare you. I just REALLY want you to GET how BIG this is. Think if you had an illness and didn't know it - but that it was ROBBING you of having a great life. You had no energy to do what you wanted to do. You were depressed. You were hard to be around for others. And your ability to carry out the actions that would lead to success in your job, or finances, or social life was severely weakened.
So you tried vitamins but they didn't help. Then you cleaned up your diet, giving up sugar, alcohol, and fried food - but still you felt terrible. So you started working out like crazy, but it seemed to make no difference.
And then - a miracle. You found out that your problem was HORMONAL and NO DIET, exercise program, or vitamin in the world was going to help you - only balancing your hormones would. And if you were able to do this - your energy would be great, your mood would be happy, your friends and family would love to be around you again, and you'd be able to pursue all your goals.
That's what it's like when you have one of these five astrological archetypes keeping you single. You can try to DO all kinds of things - internet date, join singles groups, get everyone and their mother to set you up, seek therapy, hire a coach...
But if you aren't doing WHAT WILL WORK FOR YOU, and what's needed to HEAL and ALIGN with your specific archetype issues, then all of that effort won't work...
So - get the key to it all at last. Don't let another year come and go without the love of a great relationship with a great man. Stop running on that hamster wheel. And PLEASE stop avoiding the topic altogether, thinking that love is somehow for OTHER people, because you've been CURSED by the Universe to die alone.
90% of us get married - sorry, but you're NOT that special that the universe is "singling" you out - pardon the pun! It's a nice "cop out" because you've been hurt, or are scared, or don't want to "stick your neck out" again... And I get it. Really I do... I don't blame you at all; I just know you can have more! And I sincerely want to help. "Single Syndrome" is the help you need.
If you find that - like the vitamins, and health foods, and gym membership in my example above - it DOESN'T help you - simply send it back within 30 days and you won't be charged a thing. That's right - order a FREE TRIAL set of the CD or DVD version, and put it to the test - see if it resonates and inspires and then WORKS for you. If it doesn't, I'll take the loss (you don't even have to pay for shipping if you're in the U.S.). I can't wait to help you change your love life, and get the RIGHT romantic prescription at last. Its all Here.
And may God and His planets and stars shower you with love!
Hi, I'm Carol Allen, relationship coach and Vedic astrologer and author of 'Love Is In The Stars.' For almost two decades now I've been helping women be successful in love, and now you can get my advice at absolutely no cost in my love and Vedic astrology newsletter.
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